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To Your Unique Self: 40 Lessons in Personality Psychology
Wang Fang

Characteristics of Neuroticism

Hello, and happy new week! In the previous episode we discussed extraversion, the first trait in the Big Five model. Today we turn to the second: neuroticism.
If positive emotion is one of extraversion’s core features, negative emotion is the defining mark of neuroticism.A typical person high in neuroticism is easily disturbed and troubled by everyday annoyances. Everyone frequently encounters unpleasant events, but people high in neuroticism have a lower threshold for feeling them and therefore experience negative emotions more often, especially anxiety and depression.
Please note that “anxiety” and “depression” here do not mean anxiety disorders or depressive disorders.Evidence does suggest that extremely high neuroticism is associated to some extent with the onset of anxiety and depressive disorders. But anxiety and depression as clinical conditions must satisfy diagnostic standards such as duration and severity. An illness is also a state that manifests in particular circumstances: someone with an anxiety disorder might, for example, suffer a panic attack while flying at high altitude. As a personality trait, however,the anxiety and depression of people high in neuroticism are diffuse, stable, and enduring behavioral patterns. They do not suddenly become anxious or depressed; they are simply prone to these feelings in everyday life.We might describe such a person as anxious or emotionally reactive, but not to a pathological degree. It is not as severe as an illness; compared with someone low in neuroticism, they merely experience negative emotions more often and in greater quantity.
Take anxiety, an everyday emotion for modern people. Most of us feel it when facing stressful events: perhaps tomorrow brings a crucial examination and you have not begun studying; perhaps you discover that someone you love intends to leave; or perhaps the editors at Vistopia are urging me to submit a manuscript when all I want is to lie down…
Most people feel anxious at such times. Someone high in neuroticism, however, becomes anxious earlier and more intensely. They may also feel anxious without anything that others see as particularly worrying. With a flight two weeks away, for example, they may already be wondering whether to reach the airport four hours early. This is a personality trait: a habitual tendency to respond.
Episode editor: 夏夏
2021.11.16
Audio in Chinese

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  • 李甜
    2025-04-29 07:57:27

    08:00 这位同事听起来像彭老师。。

  • kAgura
    2021-11-16 11:38:25

    是哪个编辑催咱们王老师的?叔能忍,婶也能忍,很阔爱嘛,拉出来表扬一下,哈哈哈

    DUTCH pig. :哈哈哈哈哈

  • 骄子独秀
    2021-11-16 11:28:09

    神经质6分,尽责性5.75分……就很累,一个项目如果多部门协作,不是自己完全可控,会先做好备用方案😂视重要性,不只plan B我连C都有。。

    甘道夫 :累归累,但在我看来这就是你做的很好的证据呀。而且你会被认为是值得信赖的呀~

  • 1379号监听员
    2021-11-16 08:34:32

    好人没好报?做一个好人、一个善良的人,就是上天给我们最大的奖赏。

    Deboki Reply 丸尾同学 :111又见面了

    158****7791 :最重要的是自洽和心安吧。

  • 紫菜
    2021-11-16 14:47:34

    神经质和宜人性都在6左右。想起以前我表白,别人只回了:“你人很好。”

    moon :好人卡哈哈

    187****1362 :大哥,你是真好人啊。

  • Gloria.G
    2021-11-16 13:10:02

    6.75分的神经质 2.75的尽责性 ,所以我抑郁了 哎

    195****5253 :我也是,我是神经质6.75,尽责1.25,宜人6

    150****7184 :神经质7分 尽责性1.25分 是不是没救了

  • Nicole沙丁鱼
    2021-11-16 13:12:25

    人类的特质 不是优缺点!

  • 哥的巴赫太响
    2021-11-21 20:44:53

    听到王老师讲宜人性的时候,内心被治愈了,在工作中一直都是领导安排什么就任劳任怨地做,同事各种排挤刁难,为了关系和谐而忍气吞声。很希望帮助他人成长,却因为职位的原因,还要和同事明争暗斗,严重内耗,心累。这种性格已经持续很久了,想问问老师有改进的方法吗?

  • 夸松
    2022-10-15 17:18:51

    问题是超高的神经质和超低的责任性出现在同一个人身上😂😂……痛苦,只有痛苦😂😂🌚

    moon :是我没错了 呜呜呜 如果知道改变方法,求教!

  • 小隐于朝
    2021-11-16 08:45:20

    早起会死型人来打卡😆

  • 1
    150****9386
    2023-01-13 00:30:51

    高宜人 高神经质 低责任(现在真的需要改变了

  • 188****2530
    2022-08-20 09:54:45

    我自己是宜人性比较高的,确实会有“人善被人欺”这种情况的发生,但是善良应该是人永远的美好的天性,所以偶尔吃亏一些也是可以的。

  • 有趣的小水瓶座
    2023-02-09 10:11:28

    高宜人性前来报道,以前的确有些太好说话的问题,老好人,吃了不少亏,经过几年的学习成长,已经变成一个不好惹的人,让别人知道边界在哪里,很爽。

    moon :求教是怎么学习的?

  • jiafei
    2025-12-05 16:37:08

    我感觉每个人或多或少都有大五人格吧,感觉不大可能只是一种

  • 香甜的李子
    2025-10-17 14:16:36

    我也是一个容易焦虑的人,会焦虑2个星期以后发生的事,还有点躯体化。老师点醒了我。我的焦虑来自于原始情况下,对于威胁生命事件的反应,但是现代社会不太再会有威胁生命的事件,所以我其实没有必要有那么大的反应,就是简单说就是死不了。